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Sunday, January 1, 2012

The Infamous New Year's Post

Well everyone, it's 2012. There seem to be a lot of people on the internet conflicted about New Year's Resolutions. No one seems to know what to make of them. (Do you make one, and forget about it three weeks from now? Or do you not make one and feel like you are entering another year of aimless wondering?) Because I am planning to make this post ridiculously long,  here are my thoughts on the subject:

The Three Most Important Rules for New Years Resolutions

1. The first rule is the most important. And no, it's not "stick with it," as some might say. The No. 1 rule for making New Year's Resolutions is to purge yourself of guilt. That's right. Resolutions aren't supposed to so gruelingly difficult that you don't look forward to keeping them, or that you beat yourself up about them if you slip up. So take a minute right now and repeat after me: "I will not feel guilty for not keeping my New Year's Resolutions."

2. Enthusiasm. That's rule #2. That might seem hard at first, especially if your resolution happens to be anything but fun. But if you look at your resolution less as something you have to do or you'll feel terrible about yourself (while simultaneously feeling terrible about breaking our "No Guilt" rule), then you are more likely to give up because the pressure is just too much. So, take a minute right now and repeat after me: "I vow not to hate my new year's resolutions, and if I do, to find some little part of them to be enthusiastic about, because if I try and can't find some part of them that I enjoy, then they are not worth keeping."

3. Make it legal. (Or at least, in the personal sense) Rule #3 is to find some way of making your resolutions permanent. Keeping them in your head is important, but thoughts are fickle things, my friends, and our flawed, human brains can't be counted on to remind us of our resolutions all 365 days of the new year. So take a minute right now to find a piece of paper or a typewriter or word doc on your computer and write down your resolutions, including Rules 1 and 2. Trust me, you'll be glad you did.

And now that we've looked ahead a little bit, let's take a moment to look back on 2011.

This year I:

  • Started my Junior year in high school
  • Took my first really helpful/productive/inspiring creative writing class
  • Learned to drive
  • Worked my butt off writing music for the school play
  • Visited Cloudcroft, New Mexico, where I've informally decided to move to if I ever get the chance and/or enough money
  • Discovered my new fav author, Thomas Mullen
  • Saw my new fav author, and many others, at the Texas Book Festival 
  • Won a regional Silver Key from the Scholastic Art & Writing Awards
  • Had a Wind in the Willows themed Christmas

I could go on, but I'll spare you the more boring details :) And now:

The two major accomplishments I hope to achieve in 2012 are:
  • Getting accepted to the Iowa Young Writer's Studio this summer
  • Winning an award for a Senior Portfolio from Scholastic Art & Writing 

Today some friends are coming  over to eat cabbage (for money) and black-eyed peas (for luck), so I better wrap this up. Before I go, I'll leave you with this picture:


Enjoy 2012!

1 comment:

  1. Any time I have had any success with resolutions (not much) it is because of #3. It has always been because of a goal (hopefully with a reward attached) So a good thing to do is visualize that reward - Flying off to Iowa to be all on your own and feeling a part of an elite group . . . meanwhile break the task into manageable milestones . . . I know I know you've heard it all before but that's because it's true! Focus on the milestones and you'll get there. Think how many people plan to enter a Senior portfolio and then just don't ever get around to the steps.